Saturday, 23 May 2015

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Eulogy of James Albert
James Albert died on Thursday 12th march 2015 at the age of 72. James was born in 1943 in a remote village in Illinois Chicago, to Heinsten Roberts and Mary Brittle Roberts. He graduated top of his class and he went on to have an M.A in Education from Harvard. He lived in the Mountains of West Virginia for 25 years and then moved to Florida to be near the ocean.  His love for the mountains remained and he always visited the Appalachian, and Blue Ridge Mountains every once in a while
He lived his life as a professional writer, a teacher and a volunteer. He was raised in a strict catholic background thus having the strong and uptight connection with God. He was blessed with three children, Andrew, Robert and Rita whom they got together with his partner Vanessa. These children to him were a great source of joy and blessing to them in their married life.
James was a constant traveler promoting his written works and giving lectures at state universities. He took pleasure in visiting and exploring the world. I remember this one time he came back home with a sculpture of the Buddha, and he was so pleased with himself and the work he actually did and even wrote about it in one of his memoirs. There are a number of things James wished he had done but did not. James wished he could publish the book he was working on and met his end before he could put the final touches to it.
James spent most of his 30 plus years doing vocational and charity work.james always wondered how he could be of help to anybody around him. There is this one time he came home rained on and carrying a little child. He explained to us that he had found this kid on the streets with no food and shelter. Despite our indifference about keeping the child, James insisted that he should stay with us for a few more days until he got a place to stay and he fully nurses the kid. Months later James came home and announced that he was adopting the kid. We all could not believe it but today the young tiny street kid he picked up several years ago is now a fully-grown man and pursuing a career at one of the state universities.
 He was passionate about humanity and a save haven for everyone. He also volunteered as a counselor in the prison ministry and used to give motivational speeches to the inmates. He never judged and was willing to go to lengths to not only help financially but also make follow-ups. This is justified by his numerous donations to churches and organizations.
He was never angered easily and was quick to forgive and let go. He took great joy in doing the things he liked best like swimming and reading the newspapers and books. He was a great fan of john Howardgriffin and he mostly enjoyed his book ‘black like me’. He would never get angered for any reason at all and whenever he did, he always knew how to control and manage his temper.
He was an outgoing person who loved groups and mostly enjoyed celebrating with family and friends. Many who knew him will miss him for this reason and his absolute generosity. He still made sure he hosted his families Shabbat dinners up until his demise. He knew all his extended family members by name and even he always ensured that he bought them gifts during his travels.
He was an organized man, and he always remembered birthdays and anniversaries. His relationship with his wife Vanessa was one many people admired and adored greatly. They always committed themselves to doing certain traditions together and they always created time for themselves. Due to their different careers it was difficult to spend most time together but when they did they made sure it was worthwhile. There is this time he took her to a vacation in South Africa and they came back rejuvenated and full of life. That was how James wanted it, to make everyone happy including his own family.
Though his parents died later in life when he was a full grown man, James never got the hang out of it. He always mourned them even to his own death. He always talked of their memories each and every time he invited people over for a party or anniversary. He is survived by two brothers and a sister, whose deaths he was sure he will not be able to withstand.
In the last years of his life, since his wife died he continued to write books and visit most charities he had set up. He wrote letters to friends and several books that are yet to be published in his honor. He also wrote and dedicated several letters to his friends and other relatives and asked that they be distributed right after his funeral, wanting to let all of us know that although he is gone, he is within our midst. With all his communication skills towards the end, he seemed to be brief and always preferred to write a small note to show to whomever it was he really wanted to communicate to, instead of conversation.
At the end of it all, James wished that he be remembered in many ways. Through his books, his charity work and the good morals he taught his students. Indeed, he leaves behind a legacy that should be emulated. He had qualities I know to be true, despite the vicissitudes of daily life; he had a deep desire to understand, and always strived for peace, honor and love. His journey maybe over, but he will forever remain in our hearts forever. May he rest in eternal peace.



Reference .
albert, james. "Eulogy for james albert." funeral. chicago, illinois. 12 Mar. 2015. Speech.


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